This agenda was built off the last reunion and framed out together — it's a proposal, not a contract. If something doesn't work for you or you have a better idea, reply to the planning email or leave a note in the survey.

A few things to keep in mind as you read through it: golf on Saturday morning and fishing on Sunday morning are both completely optional. The kitchen is always open — meal service happens at set times so everyone eats together, but if you're a late riser or need a snack at midnight, help yourself. And if you need to disappear for a nap, a walk, or just some quiet, the schedule is yours to use as loosely as you'd like.

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Friday · Arrival Day

Get here. Find your people. Settle in.

4:30 PMlodge check-in

Lodge check-in opens · Come straight to Pezhekee

Lodge guests skip the resort front desk — head directly to Pezhekee Lodge. Everyone else, come find us there too. People will trickle in through the afternoon at different times. Settle in, catch up, grab a drink from the bar. Friday is just about being here together.

~6:00 PMevening

Caravan to Rolling Forks Vineyards

Once we're gathered at the lodge we'll head out together — about 15 minutes from the resort. Vineyard dinner: wood-fired pizza, wine, and good light. Family photos while we're there. Sunset in July is around 9 PM so the light is excellent. Someone volunteer to play photographer.

Back at the lodgenight

Snacks, desserts, and the lodge

Back from the vineyard — snacks and desserts are stocked. Bonfire is available if anyone wants it, the resort lights it on request. No agenda from here, just the first night together.

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Saturday · The Main Event

Golf. Games. Mediterranean night. Fuego.

8:00 AMearly

Morning walk optional

Meet in the kitchen. The road along the lake and the resort property are both good routes. No pace, no plan.

8:40 AM tee timearrive early

Golf · Pezhekee National Golf Course sign up in survey

18 holes on the resort's championship course right across the road. Meet at the pro shop and arrive a few minutes early. Ten free greens fees are included with the lodge rental. Sign up in the survey so we know who's using them and whether you need clubs.

Golfing? Tell us in the survey — how many from your group, and whether you're bringing clubs or need them.
9:00 AMmorning

Yoga on the deck optional

Meet on the lodge deck. Mats are not provided — bring one if you have it. Easy hour, good views, no experience required.

9:00 AMkitchen open

Breakfast · Kitchen open from 9

Sausage, scrambled eggs, toast and GF bread, baked sweets, yogurt and granola, fresh fruit, nut butter. Pancakes and waffles available anytime. Coffee is going from early — come when you're ready. The kitchen stays open all day; this is just when the full spread is out.

Morningfree time

Free time — the lake is right there

Beach, dock, game room, hammock, a second cup of coffee — Saturday morning is unscheduled on purpose. Use it however you want before the afternoon gets going.

Noonlunch

Lunch · Self-serve from noon

Graze as you want or pack a lunch for the beach. Deli meats, cheese board, a green salad and a grain salad, pita, GF crackers, hummus, cut veg, something sweet. Golfers won't be back until around 2 PM. The kitchen is open — eat when it works for you.

~1:00–4:30 PMafternoon

Boats and beach sign up in survey

Pontoon, deck boat for tubing, kayaks, and paddleboards available through the resort. The lodge beach and dock are right there if you want to stay close to shore. Sign up in the survey so we know what to rent and for how many people.

Getting on the water? Tell us in the survey — we need headcounts to book the right boats.
5:00 PMmain event

Family Field Games Tournament

Teams, events, and bracket get sorted Saturday afternoon — we'll figure it out together. Expect chaos, competitive energy, and at least one person taking it too seriously. Everyone plays.

7:00 PMdinner

Mediterranean dinner — the aunts have the kitchen

The aunts have the kitchen. Expect grilled proteins, roasted vegetables, salads, hummus, pita and GF bread. Vegetarian options throughout — nothing to worry about if you don't eat meat. Show up hungry, say thank you, offer to clean up.

After dinnernight

Fuego · Hang at the lodge

The resort lights the bonfire. Stay at the lodge or find a spot by the fire. No schedule from here.

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Sunday · Last Full Day

Slower. Bigger brunch. Champions named.

7:00 AMearly

Fishing excursion sign up in survey

Early out on Lake Minnewaska — walleye, northern pike, bass, crappie, bluegill, and perch are all in this lake. Back before brunch. MN fishing license required, get yours at the DNR ahead of time. The people who catch walleye could be the heroes of taco night. Just saying.

Fishing? Tell us in the survey — and get your MN license ↗ before you arrive. Meet out front of the lodge.
8:00 AMearly birds

Morning walk optional

Meet in the kitchen. Same routes as Saturday — lake road or the property.

9:00 AMmorning

Yoga on the deck optional

Same spot as Saturday. Bring your own mat.

11:00 AMbrunch

Sunday brunch — sit down together

The big one. Egg bakes, roasted vegetable hash, fresh fruit, pastries. Prepped Saturday night and finished in the morning. Coffee, juice, and mimosas. Come hungry and take your time.

After brunchmidday

Sports at the resort courts

Pickleball, volleyball, shuffleboard, basketball. Show up and play whatever's going. No bracket, no signup required.

~2:30–5:00 PMafternoon

Boats · Beach · Last afternoon on the water sign up in survey

Last real afternoon on the lake. Pontoon, deck boat, kayaks, paddleboards available. The beach and dock are right there if you just want to be near the water.

Getting on the water Sunday? Tell us in the survey — same drill as Saturday, we need headcounts.
7:00 PMdinner

Cousins' taco bar

Cousins are cooking. Tortillas, seasoned beef or chicken, a plant-based protein option, rice, beans, all the toppings. If the fishing crew came through this morning there may be walleye tacos — no pressure, heroes. Show up hungry and say thank you.

After dinnernight

Family games · Dance floor opens · Champions crowned

Last night together. Tournament standings come together, champions are named, bragging rights established. Dance floor is open. Bonfire if you want it. Stay up as long as the night lets you — rematches next reunion.

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Monday · See You Next Time

Bagels and lox. Long hugs. Drive safe.

Morninglast morning

Bagels and lox · Coffee · Goodbyes

Bagels, lox, cream cheese, capers, red onion. Coffee is going. Take your time with the goodbyes.

Before you leavepack-out

Pack up · Help clean · Take your leftovers

Lodge guests: strip your beds and leave linens in your room. Everyone pitch in for a sweep of the kitchen and common areas. Take whatever food you want from the fridge — leftovers go home with people, not in the trash.

12:30 PM sharpcheckout

Checkout — 12:30 PM for lodge guests

Lodge guests: 12:30 PM hard stop — pay at the resort front desk on the way out. If you're in a cabin or elsewhere on the resort, check your booking for your checkout time.

A note on this schedule

It's a guide, not a contract. The best moments of any reunion happen in the margins — the conversation that runs long, the unplanned swim, the thing a kid starts that turns into a new tradition.

The only fixed things are dinner times, checkout Monday, and the activities you signed up for. Everything else breathes. If you have ideas or want to help organize something, tell us in the survey. We're building this together.